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CHRISTIAN RELATIONSHIPS:
How are you as a friend? Do your friends know that you love them? Test yourself with this tool. Add the areas for growth on your personal plan.
Circle the number that best applies to you. (1-poor, 2-fair, 3-good, 4-very good, 5-excellent).
FRIEND ASSESSMENT
poor excellent| 1) Listen attentively when my friend is talking. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 2) Ability to avoid changing the focus to me. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 3) Seek to understand before being understood. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
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4) Genuinely pleased when my friend tells me good news.
| 1 2 3 4 5 |
5) Slow to anger | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 6) Quick to forgive. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 7) Willing to forgive again | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 8) Remember issues, events in my friend's life. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 9) Nonjudgmental of my friend's choices. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 10) Willingness to tell my friend if he/she is sinning. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 11) Willingness to tell my friend if I am angry at him/her. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 12) Willingness to tell my friend if he/she hurt my feelings. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 13) Willingness to offer help when I see the need. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 14) Give words of encouragement and praise. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 15) Ability to accept help from my friend when I need it. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
| 16) Willing to tell my friend that I love them. | 1 2 3 4 5 |
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ARTICLES OF INTEREST
Effective Communication
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Using "I" Statements
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32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 4:32
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SUBMIT YOUR TESTIMONY
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Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins..
1 Peter 4:8
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