Then your anxiety about how to talk to the doctor changes to fear. What if I have something really wrong? What if I have to miss more days of work? What if the doctor tells me I need surgery?

Somewhere in the process, one of her assistants comes in to help. After a short time, it is apparent that they have an easy, cooperative working relationship. Instead of feeling awkward with another stranger. You feel doubly safe. Clearly, the assistant respects Dr. Taylor, but more curiously, it is clear she respects the assistant, and treats her with the same gentleness and patience you are receiving. It isn't just a practiced doctor-patient thinkg. She is just a kind, loving person who cares about others.

As you explain your symptoms, and have come to the point where you expect the doctor to become impatient, you realize that she is listening attentively, the warmth in her eyes not changing. She asks for information, you provide it and the exchange goes on until she is satisfied she has a true and total picture. Then she says, "You know your body and your history best. How does this compare to past pain. What have you tried before that worked and didn't?" After consideration, and another quick review of your chart, she says, "This is what I am thinking would be best. Tell me what you think?"

No longer afraid, you are grateful to be here. You have definitely come to the right place!